association

Today in class we were talking about how the type of friends we hang out with and associate with depict who we really are. We had gone a little more into depth about the subject and it came out that if we choose people that don't lift us up and make us want to be the best that we can be, then is that really what we want? How can you become your best self when you have others tearing at yourself? Because the type of people we are around, we will soon become alike. "A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way that you are." We want to be around people that bring that smile to our faces, that shine in our eyes, and the respect that comes along with it. "I'd like to be the sort of friend that you have been to me, I'd like to be the help that you've always been glad to be; I'd like to mean as much to you each minute of the day, as you have meant old friend of mine, to me along the way." If you want the type of friends that these quotes refer to, shouldn't you start to be a better friend as well? Help those in need, you might make a new friend. Share what you have, for you will be blessed. And love who each and everyone is, because a true friend will not judge. Be the helping hand when someone is a little lost, be the light in their day. If you help others, you'll feel that much better about yourself. As an activity with my friends, we had gone to a food shelter to lend a hand about a week before Christmas. So many kind families had gotten up early to prepare food for those who may be a little behind and needing some assistance. Families were earlier "adopted" and presents had been bought for their family to share. As the families came by to see what the group of people had done for them.. their smiles were as big and bright as though they couldn't have had a better day, not ever. These people were so happy.. it was just a complete and humbling experience. Simple acts of service can brighten your spirit and maybe help you choose those friends that build you up.