Keeping it positive

Starting off, I'm not going to tell you how old I am, yet. Don't judge my age, I have something to say and I think it should be heard. Have you ever thought about life and thought, "Why does this always happen to me?" But think, you're not the only one who has trials, and you're not going through it alone. Thinking negative doesn't get you anywhere, it just makes you feel like you can't fix anything or you're stuck where you are. Sure, life can be hard, but it's all worth while. When life gets you down, just look at the bright side; it's easier said than done, but it'll make things that much better. I have 10 members in my family, me being the youngest. I don't always get to be with the older kids, but I do love them with all my heart. There is nothing they could say or do to make me love them any less than I do. My siblings have made their share of mistakes, but hasn't everyone? The key is to learn from these and be a better you. Personally, I try not to get mad over the simplest of things, or even the worst of things. Why should I? Being mad is just too much effort and sadness, when I could be out enjoying things and having a good time. I don't take things for granted, and I always thank my parents for everything they've done for me. What do you think of when you hear the word 'hero'? The dictionary says that a hero is a man of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities. Now your probably thinking of someone like a cop or fireman, am I right? But what about just an average person who has really influenced your life? My father, is a brilliant man. A fearless, fun, and thoughtful man. Without him, I really wouldn't be anywhere close to the place in life that I am now. He's done everything in his power to raise our family to the highest of quality. Doing anything he can to support us, and keeping our thoughts positive when things get rough. My parents, in all of their years of marriage, have not fought even once. Can you say true love and dedication? I'm sure they have both pushed each others' buttons more than a few times, but they didn't let that get in the way of their happiness. I'm so thankful for that, I am the way I am because of them. So mom and dad, if you're reading this, thank you so much for everything. I know that you think you've done something wrong in teaching us kids because of some of the choices we've made, or will make, but you did an amazing job. I love you both. So back to the subject of happiness, do you see where I got my positive attitude? It's not something that's easy to acquire, but think of the joys you will receive because of a simple change in your lifestyle. Don't judge, don't hate; everyone is different, so let them be the way that they are. You cannot change someone because that's what you want, you just need to learn to accept and love the way that they are. Just remember that old saying, when you see a glass half way filled, don't think of it as half way empty, but half way full.